Dr. Ruth Makes a House Call to the State Theatre
Before Oprah brought Dr. Phil and Dr. Oz to your home via TV, there was Dr. Ruth Westheimer giving advice on the radio. But she wasn’t talking about diets or social behavior.
Dr. Ruth’s groundbreaking show started as a 15 minute pre-recorded program, but gained an audience. While it was considered risqué at the time, the show went live, and catapulted her into celebrity. In the meanwhile, Westheimer’s expertise as a psychosexual therapist has expanded to books, computer software, games, home video, newspapers, television, and her own website.
Whether or not you’re a fan of 50 Shades of Grey, you should check out Dr. Ruth on Wednesday, April 17th, when she’ll be speaking about her life, career, and I’m sure sex, all in a way to inspire us thanks to SmartTalk. The performance at the State Theatre begins at 7:30 PM, and tickets are still available, so pay her a visit and hear what the good doctor has to say.
Outdoor Dining in Princeton
Spring is finally here, which means people are itching to get outside. Princeton sidewalks will start to fill with shoppers and tourists as the temps heat up. All that walking around works up an appetite, and since there are so many eateries in town, why not stop for some food and beverage?
Luckily for us, we can still stay connected with the great outdoors by selecting a restaurant or a shop with outdoor seating. Many say food tastes better when enjoyed outdoors, so this may be why Princeton has a number of sidewalk cafes, making dining al fresco a breeze (pun intended). Here is a guide of outdoor dining in Princeton. If I’ve missed a restaurant, please add it in the comment section below.
Agricola – A new restaurant in town offering New American food, and can seat 14 outside.
Alchemist & Barrister – This is an old favorite with section that’s more like a sunroom located next to the passageway connecting Witherspoon Street and Palmer Square East.
Blue Point Grill – This is one of the best seafood restaurants in the area. They have space heaters and are partially covered by awnings.

Photo Credit: Camillo’s Cafe
Camillo’s Cafe – This Italian restaurant is at the back of the Princeton Shopping Center. They have tables covered by an awning along its side.
EFES Mediterranean Grill – Enjoy Turkish cuisine on Nassau St. Limited seating.
Gennaro’s Restaurant – Italian fare served just north of the borough on the northbound side of Rt. 206.
Hinds Plaza – This is next to the library and has several tables. During warmer weather the tables have umbrellas, and the Farmers’ Market provides musical entertainment around lunch time. You can grab your lunch from any nearby merchants like Olives, Sakura, Red Onion, Iano’s, or from stands at the market, and sit and eat. It’s almost like a food court… just the best one ever!
Ivy Inn – This Nassau Street pub just expanded their menu and has seating in the back.
La Mezzaluna – Italian food with a few tables out on Witherspoon.

Photo Credit: Main Street Bistro
Main Street Bistro & Bar – They have the Clocktower Cabana Patio Bar in the courtyard of the Princeton Shopping Center. They serve food and tropical drinks. It’s like being on vacation.
Mediterra – Feast on Mediterranean cuisine while overlooking a courtyard with a circular fountain and Palmer Square West. Very European! They’re looking into heating (infrared) that will work with their new retractable roof.
Mehek – Indian restaurant offering a few tables on Nassau Street.
Metro North (Princeton) – It’s on the outskirts of Princeton and offers more space with seating for 50.
Mistral – Courtesy of the owners of elements, this new eatery will open in weeks, and will be on the corner of Witherspoon and Hulfish with a large patio for 40.
Nassau Sushi – On Nassau Street but has outdoor eating in the back off to the side. You can get glimpses of Nassau depending on where you sit.
Palmer Square – While there are no tables, there are benches available. You can sit and enjoy a sandwich and drink if you don’t mind a more casual meal.
Panera Bread (Nassau St.) – They have a new pasta menu. Limited seating on the sidewalk.
PJ’s Pancake House – Serving more than just breakfast to a few tables on Nassau Street.
Princeton Soup and Sandwich Company - A handful of tables on Palmer Square East and Hulfish.
Small World Coffee (Nassau St.) - Limited seating on the sidewalk.
Thai Village – Thai food with some tables on Nassau Street.
Thomas Sweet (Nassau St.) - Shares a few tables with Zorba Grill recessed off Nassau.
Tiger Noodles – Most popular Chinese restaurant in town located on Nassau Street with recessed outdoor dining.
Witherspoon Grill – Sit at the back of Hinds Plaza and watch people walking along Witherspoon Street or popping into the library.
Yankee Doodle Tap Room – Another great Palmer Square location to eat al fresco. This beautiful patio is quite popular, serves New American cuisine, and has umbrellas and space heaters.
Zorba’s Grill - Shares a few tables with Thomas Sweets recessed off Nassau.
Bonnie St. John Motivated New Brunswick Crowd
Bonnie St. John spoke at the State Theatre this week to a crowd of mostly women. This was the third show in the SmartTalk series that brings in strong, successful women to inspire the audience. Bonnie captured our attention in more ways than one after the moderator, Magic 98.3 personality Debbie Mazella introduced her.
In case you don’t know her history, Ms. St. John was born with one leg that didn’t fully grow to match the length of her other leg. At the age of five she had it amputated, and uses a metal prosthetic to walk. When she was a teen, a friend asked Bonnie to join her and her family on a ski vacation. She did, and that adventure changed her life.
St. John went on to become a Paralympic medalist in ski racing, a Harvard grad, Rhodes scholar, worked in the White House under the Clinton administration, and the list goes on. She started out as a young, African-American, amputee girl from a single parent household, and has become very accomplished woman who has gotten where she is by setting extremely high goals for herself.
She didn’t speak at the podium, reading notes like some other speakers do. Instead, she stood in the middle of the stage and spoke directly to us. This made her presentation more personal, which was appropriate, because she shared many personal experiences. The audience applauded often in agreement to the inspirational stories, but at times I saw tears because Bonnie had touched many with her honesty, like when she shared that she was a victim of sexual abuse during her childhood. We could all relate to her in one way or another. There was also lots of laughter since she was very witty.
Ms. St. John asked us at the end what we would take away from our evening. Most indicated they were energized to accomplish more goals. She suggested what we should first consider doing less. We were puzzled. She added doing less of what makes us less productive. If we were to weed out all of the trivial things we do in a day that weren’t really necessary, we would have more time to do the things we need to do to achieve our goals.
She recently co-authored the book How Great Women Lead with her teenage daughter Darcy Deane, who has been a TEDx speaker. Darcy is interested in a career as a linguistic anthropologist and studies Chinese, Spanish, and ancient Greek. Obviously, the apple didn’t fall far from the tree.
I must be honest, I had never heard of Bonnie St. John before she was listed as a speaker for SmartTalk, and I didn’t know what to expect, but after hearing her, I now understand why NBC Nightly News called her “One of the five most inspiring women of the world”. Not only does she have a riveting story to tell, but she knows HOW to tell it. St. John is a very effective motivational speaker, so if you ever have the chance to see her, I suggest you buy tickets!
SmartTalk always seem to find the most incredible women to inspire their audiences. There are two more performances remaining for the season. Dr. Ruth will be at the State Theatre in April, and Marie Osmond in May. Tickets are still available, so hope to see you there!
All photos taken by wedding and event photographer Neil of ITM Photos (21st Century Digital Photography).
4th Annual UFAR African Soirée
The United Front Against Riverblindness (UFAR) is a non-profit organization led by Executive Director, and Chairman by Dr. Daniel Shungu. UFAR works in partnership with other organizations to combat riverblindness in the Democratic Republic of Congo. Last weekend they held their 4th annual African Soirée, which is a dinner and auction, to raise funds for their cause.
The check-in area already had an African marketplace ambience, with diashikis on racks, shoulder bags and other items for sale. The check-in table had a photo of a war canoe with about 30 people seated on it, and in front of it was a 3D model representing it.
Once inside, teens wearing colorful dashikis passed flavorful hors d’oeuvres. The tablescapes beautifully re-created African villages, each with a mini thatch roof hut in the center and wooden female figures surround it. Everyone received a hand-crafted figure as a gift.
Drummers and percussionists from The Garvey School/Egun Omode Shule started playing, and had the audience participating by singing and clapping. Once we got warmed up, female dancers came in ranging from approximately 14 down to five years of age. They all danced perfectly synchronized, including the little ones.
Soon after, the dinner buffet opened. I saw some dishes I’ve never heard of, but did recognize many. Plantains, peanut soup, goat stew, cassava, bitter greens and more were offered. People were buzzing about the new flavors as they tasted the exotic foods.
We celebrated former Princeton Township Mayor James Floyd’s 91st birthday with a cake, and another former Princeton Township Mayor, Michelle Tuck Ponder was the auctioneer of the evening. Quilts, artwork, and clothing were auctioned off for the benefit.
The planning committee consisted of Elsie McKee (below left) and Susan Lidstone (below right), and they did a fabulous job! Overall, it was a wonderful cultural experience for an important cause. I hope to see you there next year!
Bonnie St. John Coming to the State Theatre
Bonnie St. John will be speaking as part of the SmartTalk series at the State Theatre in New Brunswick this Wednesday. She is a remarkable woman who has challenged herself, and has become an Olympic athlete. Not that everyone has the discipline or talent to become an Olympic athlete, but what makes her MORE unique is she is an amputee. While amputee olympian Oscar Pistorius is in the news for all the wrong reasons at the moment, Bonnie St. John is spreading positivity.
She is the first African-American to win medals in Paralympics competition. In 1984 she won two bronze medals and one silver in Innsbruck, and she spoke at the 2002 Paralympics in Salt Lake City. Bonnie is a magna cum laude Harvard grad AND Rhodes scholar. She’s worked in the White House during the Clinton administration, and has authored six books.
This is just a sample of her work, which is probably why NBC Nightly News selected St. John as “One of the five most inspiring women in America”. You can still buy tickets to see her on March 11th at 7:30. Use the promo code “Bigpromo” to get 20% off. I’m also giving away two tickets to see her. Just write that you’d like to see her in the comment section, and I’ll announce the winner tomorrow. Good luck!

































